UPCOMING EVENTS AND CONVERSATIONs
Tuesday, September 5, 6:30-8 p.m., Death Cafe, Green-Wood Cemetery's crematory chapel, 500 25th Street, Brooklyn, 11232. 718-768-7300. Green-Wood Cemetery now hosts monthly Death Cafes. Join us for coffee and sweet treats, as fellow wayfaring strangers share their thoughts, feelings, and outlook on dying and death. Each meeting offers the opportunity for safe and open exchange without an agenda. This is surprisingly enjoyable, believe it or not. All are welcomed.
Tuesday, September 12, 6:30 p.m. Malachy McCourt book signing, Green-Wood Cemetery, 500 25th Street, Brooklyn, NY 11232.
Tuesday, September 19, 5-6:30 p.m., "Cremation and the Modern Process." What is cremation? How long have we been doing it, and how does it work? Amy leads a presentation of cremation’s history and its impact on present-day and future funerals. This engaging and sometimes even light-hearted exploration will also touch on how to choose an end-of-life mode of disposition that expresses your own beliefs and values.Afterward, you will have the opportunity to visit the crematory with Gema LaBoccetta, Green-Wood’s Crematory Manager, then chat with Amy and other attendees at a short reception. Free to attend, RSVP recommended. Please register using the Eventbrite box here.
Friday-Sunday, September 22-24, 2017, Amy will be among the presenters at the National Home Funeral Alliance biennial conference at the Pearlstone Center in Reisterstown, MD.
Saturday, September 30, 6:30 p.m. Documentary Film Screening and Discussion –
In the Parlor: The Final Goodbye. Merchant's House Museum, 29 East 4th Street, New York 10003. In the Parlor: The Final Goodbye is both a look at America’s uncomfortable relationship with death and an inquiry into the growing revival of home death-care. The film takes viewers on an journey into the lives of three families who have chosen to claim an active role in caring for their deceased and bring the funeral home. See the film, meet filmmaker Heidi Boucher, and witness families coping with loss in a way you'll never forget. A discussion will follow the screening (running time: 80 minutes). $20. Click here for reservation.
Tuesday, October 10, 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Progressive funeral director Caitlin Doughty signs her latest book at Green-Wood Cemetery. 500 25th Street, Brooklyn, NY 11232.
Friday-Monday, October 13-16, 2017, join Coleman Barks, Stephen Jenkinson, Megory Anderson, Alberto Villoldo, Ken Doka, Peter Fenwick, Olivia Bareham, Amy and a fleet of innovators in palliative and hospice care for the New York Open Center's four-day-long "Art of Dying" Symposium, which considers the following topics: How can we work more compassionately and intelligently with the dying? How can our own death and the death of those we love be faced with courage and awareness? Does consciousness survive death and, if so what might we expect? How can we best prepare? How can death become much less frightening both for ourselves and our loved ones? The Association of Death Education and Counseling ® has deemed this program as counting towards the continuing education requirements for the ADEC Certification in Thanatology. Phone (212) 219-2527 ext. 135 to learn more and register for all or some of the great offerings.
Tuesday, October 17, 6:30-8 p.m., Death Cafe, Green-Wood Cemetery's crematory chapel, 500 25th Street, Brooklyn, 11232. 718-768-7300. Green-Wood Cemetery now hosts monthly Death Cafes. Join us for coffee and sweet treats, as fellow wayfaring strangers share their thoughts, feelings, and outlook on dying and death. Each meeting offers the opportunity for safe and open exchange without an agenda. This is surprisingly enjoyable, believe it or not. All are welcomed.
Saturday, October 21, 5-6:30 p.m., Day of Remembrance at Green-Wood Cemetery. Please join us at the front gates for an opportunity to decorate memorial lanterns then process to the lake for statements from Amy and three members of clergy to process recent deaths in our families and honor those missed. We'll set our lanterns on the lake as the sun begins to set. Music, light refreshment provided. 500 25th Street, Brooklyn, NY 11232.
Wednesday, November 8, 6:30 p.m. Join Amy for a group reading of Victorian letters of condolence at Merchant's House Museum, 29 East 4th Street, New York 10003.
NEW! Tuesdays, January 17, 24, 31 and February 7, 2018: Amy teaches "Funeral Planning as Spiritual Practice," One Spirit Learning Alliance, 247 W 36th St 6th Floor, New York, NY 10018, (212) 931-6840. Spiritual traditions all over the world agree that death awareness makes life more meaningful. Sadly, we live in a death phobic society, and people who postpone funeral discussions are then confronted with decisions involving thousands of dollars as they hold Kleenex in their hands. Join journalist/NY licensed funeral director and celebrant Amy Cunningham in an eye-opening, four-week-long exploration of the fascinating trends within and without the $14 billion funeral business. To help us solidify our own final wishes, we'll watch relevant films and learn through Powerpoint presentations, group exercises, individual funeral stories, and conversation. Among the many topics we'll survey: basic funeral customs in Judaism, Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism and Islam, the history of cremation and burial (did you know that the rejection of Pagan custom in the final years of the Roman Empire lead to a Judeo-Christian tradition of burial that lasted 1500 years?) and how to make a cremation service more meaningful; we'll discuss the comeback of the home funeral (keeping the dead cool in the house for days or hours helps some people adjust to the new reality); the resurgence of shrouding, the rise of the green burial movement, and advocacy work now occurring to give families greater control over the care of their dead.